Is there anything quite as torturous as being head over heels in love with a man who doesn’t share what he’s feeling with you? It’s hard for any woman to be in this situation. You feel so connected to him and he keeps his emotions close to his vest. Over time it can become discouraging for any woman to be in this situation because you can never be really sure of where you stand. You don’t know if he sees a future with you, you can’t tell if he’s on the brink of suggesting a more serious commitment and you never know when he may just announce he’s not in love with you and he’s on his way out the door.
Short of sitting him down and drilling him with questions about what’s in his heart, is there any sure way of gaining some insight into exactly what he’s feeling? There are actually a few ways to tell what’s going on with him just by playing closer attention to his actions.
A Man in Love Will Want to Spend Time with You
This seems straightforward enough but it’s actually something most women just don’t put enough significance on. If your man will do anything to spend an evening with you, including changing plans with friends or adjusting his work schedule, he’s definitely smitten. If the man you’re involved with has a constant list of excuses for why he can’t have dinner with you or see you on the weekend, that’s not someone who has devoted his heart to you yet.
If you’re in love with him all his excuses may seem plausible including his need to visit a sick friend in the hospital, his sudden desire to help his grandmother at her place or his big work project that came out of nowhere.
The fact is that if he loves you, you will be his main priority and he’ll put you first above all else. If that’s not happening, he may not love you as much as you believe he does.
A Man in Love Will Stop Dating Other Women
Have you and the man you adore discussed dating exclusively yet? Since you’re in love with him it has to be something that
you think of constantly, right? You want this man all to yourself and if he loved you he’d want the same thing.
If you’ve been hearing rumors through the grapevine that he’s still seeing other women, don’t invest yourself so deeply into the relationship at this point. A man who is truly and deeply in love with a woman won’t want to see anyone else for the simple reason that they just don’t measure up to the woman he adores.
It’s important to discuss the idea of just dating one another with your man and it’s equally important that you pay special attention to his reaction. If he seems highly uncomfortable and repeatedly changes the subject, he’s not ready for anything more than a casual, non-exclusive dynamic.
A Man in Love Will Want You to Be a Part of His World
Most women have dated at least one man who seemed focused on keeping his life a mystery. This can be romantic to a point but when you start feeling as though he’s hiding his friends and family from you it moves into a place of emotional pain.
If a man is serious about a woman he wants to share her with everyone in his life. He wants to announce to those closest to him that he’s found someone beyond special.
Many men are actually a bit wary of introducing their dating partners to their friends simply because they don’t want there to be any awkwardness when they break up. Once a man does make the step towards introductions, that signifies that he has deeper feelings.
If you’ve been together for some time and you have yet to meet anyone in his life, that’s a clear sign that he still views you as someone he’s casually dating. If that’s what you feel, simply ask him about his friends and family and when you might meet them. If he shrugs the question off or says everyone he knows has a very busy life, he’s indicating that he’s not ready to take that step with you yet.
A Man in Love Will Take the Initiative and Express His Feelings
How many times recently have you told your man you love him, only to be greeted with a “me too” in return? It’s a very telling barometer into the heart of any man. Typically a man isn’t going to want to proclaim his deep and abiding love to a woman until he actually feels those emotions. That’s why a man who isn’t completely and utterly in love will often just say, “me too” when the woman he’s with shares her feelings.
If you haven’t been paying attention to this in your own relationship, there’s a very easy test you can do right now that will help you understand where your guy’s heart is. Don’t tell him you love him at all for the next two weeks. Don’t utter the words in speech, don’t write them in text or email and don’t try and be sneaky by slipping in other words to replace “love.” No telling him you adore him or that he’s wonderful or special. Just stop sharing your feelings completely.
Now, all you have to do is wait to see whether he’ll share his. If you go the entire 14 days without him once telling you he loves you, chances are good that he doesn’t.
A man in love wants the woman he’s enamored with to know what he feels. He’ll repeat it as often as he can and he won’t wait for her to express it first.
If your man doesn’t mention what he feels for you unless you say something first, you need to be wary of how much you invest emotionally into your connection with him. Perhaps he’s just not as deeply in love with you yet, but there’s a chance that he’s not in love at all, and if that’s the case you don’t want to put even more of yourself into a relationship that he’s unsure he wants to be in.
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